A Season of Wonder: How to Approach Summer Play with 0 – 6 Year Olds
Whether you love planning activities or letting the day unfold, here’s how to make summer play feel meaningful (without the pressure).
Summer with little kids can feel like a lot — a lot of sunshine, a lot of mess, a lot of snacks. But it can also be really special.
At Puffling, we believe summer isn’t about filling every minute. It’s about making space for joy, curiosity, and connection—however that looks for your family.
Whether you’re the type who loves a themed craft or more of a “go play with the hose” kind of parent (or both, depending on the day), here are a few things to keep in mind as you think about summer play with your 0–6 year old.
1. Let Your Kid Lead—and Follow What Feels Good to You, Too
Kids don’t need every moment planned out — but some parents like planning, and that’s great! If you love a Pinterest-worthy setup, go for it. If not, that’s just as valuable.
The sweet spot is finding where your child’s interests meet your own energy and bandwidth. Some days that’s making cloud dough. Other days it’s letting them pour water between two bowls while you drink coffee.
2. Play Through the Senses
Little kids are built to learn with their whole bodies. Summer is full of sensory opportunities — they’re practically everywhere.
Water + cups = early science
Sand + hands = fine motor skills
Watching bugs = focus + curiosity
Picking berries = life skills + connection to nature
The best part? None of it needs to be fancy to be effective.
3. Boredom Is OK (Really)
We know it can feel uncomfortable when kids say, “I’m bored,” but that quiet space often leads to the most creative moments.
You can make it easier by having a few low-effort play setups ready — things like:
An art tray with markers and stickers
A bin of water and a whisk
Loose parts (rocks, cups, lids, spoons)
And if you do love planning crafts and themes? That’s awesome. Those moments can be just as magical and memorable.
4. Mess Is Part of the Magic (Sometimes)
Summer is a great time to say yes to things that are a little messier—because it usually means learning is happening. Water, mud, paint... even popsicles dripping down their arms.
Need some easy ideas?
Freeze small toys in ice and let them “excavate”
Give them a bucket of water + brush to “paint” the sidewalk
Add animals to shaving cream or bubbles for a sensory wash
And don’t worry — you’re allowed to skip it on days where the mess feels like too much.
5. It’s the Connection That Counts
No matter how elaborate or simple the play is, what matters most is you. Kids thrive when they feel seen and safe. That happens in the little moments:
Sitting nearby while they build a tower. Watching them show you a rock. Asking, “What does it feel like?” when they squish something in their hands.
You don’t have to do it all. Just be there when you can.
One Last Thing…
There’s no “right” kind of summer play. Some days will be full of magic. Others will be full of meltdowns. That’s real life—and it’s enough.
You’re doing a beautiful job.
Need Play Ideas?
Puffling gives you custom activity suggestions based on your child’s age, interests, and your preferences (yes to water play? no to glitter?). Download the app and be an early tester and we’ll help you turn everyday moments into something special—without the stress.
